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Beautiful essay. I am now the full-time caregiver of a spouse with dementia. I do this with great love, and gratitude for 60 years of a rich and fulfilling marriage. Still rich, still fulfilling, but sometimes taxing, and often dependent on the memories of earlier and more laughter-filled times. Your essay— by including the work of caregivers — restored something to me that goes missing whenever I cannot take part in the protests and quite passionate campaigns we once participated in together. Not whining. Just wondering sometimes — as a dear friend recently asked — who am I now? Certainly I am no longer the woman arrested over the KXL pipeline. Certainly I am not the woman who (backed by the group then called ForestEthics) sued the government of Canada over the right to comment on the Line9B reversal and expansion. As I say, I’m not whining. I am magnificently supported by a remarkable family, a dear congregation, and a superb local Alzheimer’s society. All good. And that small phrase in your essay reminds me of the dignity of my labour, and the worth of who I am now. Thanks, Leni.

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